“Times have changed. Have You?”
Many, many books have been written over the years about how to succeed
in business; most of them old school. An exception is a new book by Dr. Adam
Grant, a professor at The Wharton School of Business at the University of
Pennsylvania titled, Give and Take: A
Revolutionary Approach to Success. His research led him to believe that our
relationships play an even more important role in individual success today.
We all grew up under the teachings of the old school on individual
success in the corporate world. Many of these teachings were shallow, but
effective, like when you move around, always walk fast. This creates the image
that you are industrious, busy, hard working, and ambitious. Laugh if you want,
but it works.
We were taught to treat the boss as your customer because he/she
controls our chances at promotion and salary increases. We were taught to view
our co-workers as competitors as we had to beat them out for that promotion.
This led to hoarding information and political infighting.
A friend of mine, Bob Killeen who was the Regional Director for United
Auto Workers, once said, “You can’t lead a union today like you did in the
‘30s, just like you can’t manage today like you did in the 30s.” Are you
working as your ancestors did in the 30s or are you adapting to modern
approaches?
Dr. Grant describes three major trends in interpersonal relationships
that give rise to increased opportunities for innovative referrals and
promotions.
· People are increasingly being asked to work on
project teams and strong interpersonal skills greatly enhance the chances of
success for the team.
· We are in the midst of a shift to a knowledge and
service economy. Understanding and caring about the needs of the customer, both
external and internal, make or break your chances for success. Whoever uses
your output is your customer.
· On-line social networks expose you for the world to
see. Word of mouth has always been
important but now its importance is exploding with the widespread use of
various electronic networks.
Grant describes three types of workers, Takers, Matchers, and Givers.
Takers look out for #1, Matchers strive to trade evenly, and Givers contribute
to others without expecting anything in return. The Givers become the most
valuable asset for any organization. Some thoughts on how to become more of a
Giver are:
· Become an active listener. Focus on the
customer or speaker, look him/her in the eyes, and understand the point they
are trying to make. Follow up to ensure that you understand correctly.
· Be willing to give more than you receive by
sharing information, contacts, and ideas.
· Understand areas where you can help. Use
your area of expertise such as marketing, social media, networking, etc. to
provide assistance or teaching to others.
· Find ways to enhance the fun in your
workplace. Make life more enjoyable for others. Do not be super critical of
management, co-workers, customers or anyone else.
Now more than ever, the Golden Rule applies to help us become more
successful in our careers and personal life. Someone once said we harvest what
we sow and that is very apparent in today’s workplace. Besides, it makes you
feel good.
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